pattylondon
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Post by pattylondon on Jan 31, 2007 14:56:53 GMT -5
I've been thinking... I love my son too much! And his dad called him to tell he was going to see him -after all the suing thing and all- and never went; and my son told me... "Mom, my dad don't really love me?" And I have to agree, what else I can say? But I told him, but mom loves you, your grandpa', your grandma', your uncles... and he said... okay, and did a face that reminded me Roger... so I guess I still crazy -lol-
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Post by sinful aussie on Jan 31, 2007 15:07:51 GMT -5
he's such a cutie!
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Post by damdemfries on Jan 31, 2007 15:08:12 GMT -5
*I* wouldn't agree with him when he says dad doesn't love him anymore. That seems painful. And, who knows if his dad does or doesn't. He may be an ass (sounds like it), but he may still care. I think a reply something along the lines of "He does love you, his priorities are just off right now" may be better for the kids self esteem.
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pattylondon
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Post by pattylondon on Jan 31, 2007 15:14:55 GMT -5
*I* wouldn't agree with him when he says dad doesn't love him anymore. Actually his dad don't give a sh!te for him, and trust me is not painful according to the psychologist in his baby house keeping techer; he told me that because he knows it and its true, and Gabriel set the patern figures in my dad -his grandpa'- and me as his mom. Not that he is hurted, he hardly see him twice in one full year! I give you the link to one thread to get what I am getting through duranduranboard.proboards86.com/index.cgi?board=general&action=display&thread=1169486563
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Post by conchita on Jan 31, 2007 15:24:56 GMT -5
Give him a kiss from Tia Conchita!
xoxoxoxoxoxxoxo
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pattylondon
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Post by pattylondon on Jan 31, 2007 15:29:39 GMT -5
Of course he will have the kiss! Thank you!
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Post by jen68 on Jan 31, 2007 15:41:20 GMT -5
YOu're not crazy--You're a parent!!! His father is the crazy one, look at what he's missing!
*smooches from aunt jenny*
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Post by damdemfries on Jan 31, 2007 15:42:35 GMT -5
Patty, I remember seeing that thread. And, I know you are going through A LOT. He will certainly figure out what an ass his dad is. I said *I* wouldn't do it. I don't have experience with it myself. I have some friends who have Justin Beiber Fan ex-husbands and have seen what their kids went through.
And, I didn't quite get this: psychologist in his baby house keeping techer
Is that daycare? His day care facility/teacher (that has a psychologist)? Or are you talking a social worker? Sorry, I'm not quite following.
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pattylondon
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Post by pattylondon on Jan 31, 2007 15:51:53 GMT -5
@damdemfries
Sorry, Well, is like the kindergarten for babies from 1 month old trough 3 years, until he get to kinder. And they have a full time psychologist to help.
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Post by damdemfries on Jan 31, 2007 16:02:39 GMT -5
Thanks for the explanation.
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